Getting a mood disorder is like getting the flu. It strikes seemingly at
random. No one is to blame. No one should feel ashamed or guilty that they
have it. There’s no vaccine or miracle cure, but there is hope. It sucks, but
it will get better with treatment and care.
That’s why I love Katherine Stone’s album of postpartum mood survivors over on her great Postpartum Progress site. Just beautiful families who have overcome great hardship to survive
and thrive. As Stone says, “We aren’t defective. We aren’t strange or unusual.
We are great moms who were waylaid temporarily by a terrible illness.”
And there’s nothing shameful in being laid up by a terrible illness. Indeed, in the
same way that catching the flu can make a body more resistant to future illness,
surviving a postpartum mood disorder makes a family tougher and more resilient
in the face of future struggles.